Flying alone from India to the US: a checklist for parents
Long-haul trips are tiring at any age. For a parent flying alone, the hard parts are rarely the flight itself. They're the moments in between: a connection in an unfamiliar airport, a form in a language they don't read easily, a queue that moves without explanation. A little preparation at home makes those moments much easier.
A week before
- Check the passport and visa. Make sure the passport is valid well beyond the travel dates and the visa is in the passport they are carrying.
- Request wheelchair or assistance when booking, or call the airline at least 48 hours before departure. Ask them to note it on every leg, including connections.
- Choose an aisle seat near the front if possible. It's easier to get up, and quicker to get off.
- Print a one-page travel sheet with flight numbers, the full address they're going to, your phone number and a second contact. Put one copy in the handbag and one in the cabin bag.
Medicines and health
- Keep all medicines in hand luggage, in their original packaging, with a copy of the prescription.
- Pack enough for the journey plus a couple of days of delay.
- Write the dosage times in both time zones, so they know when to take them on the plane.
- If they have a condition that could flare up, ask their doctor whether they're fit to fly and carry a short note.
The phone
- Make sure the phone works abroad: turn on international roaming or buy an eSIM for the destination.
- Save your number as a favourite and set up WhatsApp calling, which works on airport Wi-Fi.
- Charge it fully and pack a small power bank and the right plug adapter.
On the day
- Check-in: arrive early. Confirm the wheelchair at the counter and ask that it be arranged at the connecting and arrival airports too.
- Security: passport and boarding pass in hand; phone, coins and belt in the tray.
- At the gate: sit close to the gate and tell the gate staff they're travelling alone. Assistance passengers usually board first.
- On the plane: the crew can help with overhead bags. If the airline hands out an arrival or customs form, fill it in before landing, and ask the crew for help if needed.
- Connections: follow the "Transfers" or "Connecting flights" signs, not "Exit". If unsure, show the next boarding pass to any staff member.
- Immigration: they'll be asked the purpose of the visit and how long they're staying. A short, practised answer helps: "I'm visiting my daughter for three months."
- Customs: declare any food they are carrying. Rules on food differ by country and declaring is always the safe choice.
Company makes a difference
Families tell us the single most reassuring thing is knowing someone familiar is on the same flight: someone to sit with at the gate, ask "is this our queue?", or walk to the connection together. That's the idea behind Saathi.
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